Salam.
I have been called anti-social, shy, awkward because I spend time alone reading and thinking. I prefer quiet nights at home over social events.
A relaxing peaceful night at home is one of the life's greatest pleasures.
Come across as mysterious bcs I don't say much, so people have to guess what I'm thinking. Another is that I tend not to show my emotion on my face. Now, being mysterious can sometimes be a problem bcs i'm an innie. For example, people may think i'm being aloof or ignoring them, and i may not communicate what i need from them. (It is possible to betoo enigmatic.) But other times, being quietly mysterious works to your advantage because it can make people think you're hiding intriguing secrets when i'm really just thinking about something mundane, like whether i remembered to buy laundry detergent the last time you were at the store.
I am more comfortable being myself. I’m a quiet thinker.
And I’m ok with that.
This lifestyle has worked very well for me. While others are out seeking entertainment I am focused, chipping away at my goals. I work longer. I can spend a lot of time alone. I can work for days alone with no problem. With no distractions around us we can focus and work. I use my time alone to write, create, test and optimize. Observe .
“Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life…” – Steve Jobs
I'm just being myself, i don't want to pretend to be a social person bcs i'm not.
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I'm just another person sitting alone on the couch.
